I do not think you are starting a war, it is just a matter of our perspectives.
I just find it interesting that you can change the audio setting with the TiVo to fix the problem, but only until you change the channel or a new show comes on. I am not a computer programmer, but I belive there is a way to edit the TiVo software to correct the problem by itself or at least allow a more permanent setting fix.
I just think that TiVo is in the best position to make the changes because it is their device that is not working; whereas the cable company's DVR works just fine.