Ruler of an Unown UI
That's certainly frustrating. You can downgrade the TiVo menus to the old version (TE3, as in TiVo Experience 3, see here and here), and that sleep issue is I hope due to a simple option that can be turned off (see here). I turned it off in mine. But yes, overall the Bolt has been a low-quality product, there are many complaints here about that. (My rant about my Bolt is here.) And for streaming, a Fire Stick is far better, no contest. But for a DVR, since all alternatives cost money too, I'd recommend a used or refurbushed TiVo Roamio Pro on TE3 for as long as TiVo will allow us to use that version of the menus. TiVo is still a great service overall, and Rovi hasn't entirely ruined it yet.