Advertisements That was a great moment when Jane asked Lisbon if they were sleeping together. Until that second, I (like Lisbon) didn't realize he had lost his memory. I like when the story can catch me off guard. I was enjoying the pre-Red John Jane. What a jerk! Him hitting on the red haired detective was amusing. I have missed several episodes over the various seasons, so can someone tell me again, why did Red John pick Jane's family to murder. I know he was a fraudulent, arrogant psychic, but was there a direct connection between RJ and Jane?