Advertisements I don't really think that what's her name should have had to leave just because she had residual feelings for an ex boyfriend. I think she truly was looking to fall in love with someone who would marry her. She really wants to get married and is not going to get back with her ex. I'm not sure all the woman who are left are that willing to get married. I think Blakley would have married him (the scrapbook convinced me of that). I would bet money that what's her name's ex-boyfriend who didn't want to marry her decided when he found out she was on The Bachelor that he didn't want someone else to have her so he contacted the producers and made it sound like they were still together and in love.