Advertisements Oh, don't get me wrong - she used very bad judgement. I thought she was an idiot before, and this just sealed the deal. But however stupid she might have been, he was horrible. He used his FOUR YEAR OLD DAUGHTER to make the woman feel bad about a mistake HE admitted to making. So rather than take responsibility for something he did that he felt was wrong, he dumped all his crap on her. I agree that a lot of her crying was probably the realization that she had made a mistake. She tried to get an edge on the competition, and it backfired. But he made her feel like crap about a mutually consenting experience, and used his kid to justify doing so. That is just sh*tty. The guy is a total a-hole.